Mr. du Mont, you have already bought a grave in which you will later rest. Are you so afraid of losing control? Nah, I'm not a control freak. But I like to plan - even expensive holes like a grave. In the end, I no longer notice where I am buried. But when my mother died, she left us in great chaos, and I don't want to put that on my children. When a loved one dies, you want to be able to mourn in peace.