The beautiful Narcissus, from men and women alike sought-after, rejected all of his admirers and suitors, because no one was ever good enough for him. One day he came upon a body of water, fell in love with his mirror image, he was no longer able to separate himself and was transformed into a flower – the Daffodil. Why I to you today the tale of the beautiful Narcissus to tell who could only love himself and no one else? Because it's still to be and because I have a rare Talent, you attract the crap the throw pile of fly or how my freshly loaded schenktes cyclists all the wasps in the quarter.

just last weekend I had again a Date with a "I-am-the-coolest-guy"types, of which I was in last year some to get to know. And that is particularly nasty, while, Nerd, Hipster, Eco, square, Player, or Snob usually at least by their external features (to the prejudice of the drawer opening time is quite far), can hide as a narcissist in any case.

Andy, for example. Brown Curls, bright green-blue eyes under the thick eyebrows, Stubble, strong, athletic, friendly Smile. Andy lives just outside, so we have to go for a walk somewhere between Munich and Hintertupfing an appointment. I'm first at the meeting point, five minutes later, his big appearance is coming: I hear him before I see him.

The big black Audi is racing across the gravel Parking lot, screeches next to me, and Andy gets out. Similar to the tinder photos, but with dark sunglasses and a strong cloud of perfume. A kiss on the right, kiss on the left. The Moment was not just Corona? Minimum distance? Meeting Outdoors? For the first Time on this day, I have the feeling, that to me is Andy's Minzatem without being asked to close.

But once we start to walk together along the river until we come to a clearing, and Andy unpacks a blanket and beer for the both of us. How thoughtful, I think, and hang this man on the lips, told of his work, his education and his Hobbies, as he would in a job interview for the Job of his life. What Andy is great and while he is getting louder and louder, I'm not always quiet, what bothers more, because my amount of Speaking time is 10:90.

An hour later I'm next to the man with the three degrees and the big Ego is becoming smaller and smaller and dumber. Andy is rubbing on the muscular arms, while he tells what he can do and I cringe when his Hand suddenly on my back lost.

And then, the first question comes to me: "How many tinder dates have you had?" I answer truth, and realize that just because something is in the eye of the most amazing and beautiful man of this universe has changed. A little later he kisses me, just like that. Without careful'em out, see, without Hesitation, without further ADO. And what would I have referred to in other moments, perhaps as a "Heat-of-the-moment," not now feels just right. No passion, no thrill, no feelings. So, at least, none that have to do with dancing butterflies, rather with an angry swarm of Wasps.

the guy takes me just seriously in the pants? I push his Hand away, sliding his whole body, and wonder when exactly I gave him the Signal that I could now fallen. Sex on a Meadow by the river with a guy who just takes what he wants without checking short times, whether the feeling is mutual. And says now in all Seriousness to me: "Oh come on, don't be like that. Is beautiful.“ Where is the swarm of Wasps when you need him?

I didn't realize then that I have outside the grid, I want to get away as quickly as possible. Away from this guy, get out of this Situation. An Exit Plan. I pack my things, Andy is rubbing a Curl from her forehead and looks at me puzzled while I try to make him understand that he has just crossed a line. I'm gone and leaving him on the river. Maybe he can't be there in a flower turn, maybe. My Single realization 048: There are Dates that start really weak and then strong.

This article was written by (Kathi Killmann) Tesla: A 13-Year-old is filming illegally Gigafactory construction - Musk sees the Video and responding FOCUS Online/Wochit Tesla: A 13-Year-old is filming illegally Gigafactory construction - Musk sees the Video and responds

*The post "First Date with a narcissist: a Sudden kiss of the Robbery, and his Hand in my pants" will be released by Glamour. Contact with the executives here.