the topic of moving in Together: How and when you do, it's because now, right? In the first part of my living-Guides for couples we already talked about some of the guile that can make the love cave quickly a real relationship hell.

Because let's face it: As romantic the idea is, every Morning, in addition to the beloved people to Wake up to cook in the evening, candle-lit Pasta and a night of wild Sex together, to fall asleep – so unrealistic it all is. Seriously. I mean, real life is neither the "Bravo Girl" a Pudding-promotion.

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tip #4: (Not only) On the size of it

at Least two rooms should have their shared apartment, or even better three. For each Partner, but in any case, a room you can retreat. And has not cracked until’s.

Just in relationships, places of retreat are important, because in addition to the "We" there are also two "I's" that want to be cared for. The their passions to pursue, or to new porn clip of Leo and Lulu want to masturbate. However, at exactly this point it is tricky. Because you explain to your loved one, why you longed-for, in spite of the long common nest building do not want to spend every free Minute at her side.

your wife is understanding and in the best case, even the need for Alone-time in the second place, all is well. She has no understanding, they must communicate more, please, always be considerate and patient. Pouting your wife still let you. You do not waive their spatial and mental space. Your relationship will thank you for it.

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tip #5: the thing with The pull Together to sample

in Principle a good idea. A draws (for now) to another, without his own four walls to give up. So you can practice to live together before things get serious.

In practice, I'm not sure how the principle impacts from the apartment training camp on the relationship. Of course, a shared apartment is a big step. But the are Married and have kids get, and unless you can test it before binding. In this respect, I personally think more likely, in advance (!) to consider carefully whether you want to play this next Level together or not. Their partnership is not stable enough, or you feel not ready, you should tell your partner and to your opinion.

you Can imagine, however nothing Better way than to share everyday life with the loved one (and the wife too), you should make nails with heads.

tip #6: The right time

Speaking of nails with the heads: I think that the best time is to pull Together still in the first love phase. Then, if the Whatsapp messages of your girlfriend stomach tingling you and no headaches. If you paint your future together in the most beautiful colors and love happiness blessed. Of course, you don't know each other in this Phase very well. So what? I would 1000 Times prefer to be with a human, his eating and Bathroom habits, I will not know, in I but infinite in love, than with someone I know inside and out, which annoys me after all this time, but also often colossal. Then we get on the trip and not before. A larger Venture like the be all, but maybe one that is worth it, and you should discuss with the woman you love.

Or to say it with other, not-so-flowery words: Go to the step when you feel ready for it. But make sure that there is still enough love in the game, to look forward to their first joint home. Once out of the adventure a must-attend event, here is my advice: stay away and legs in the Hand.

Mimi Sex columnist for GQ, and GQ.de is Erhardt. Here learn more about the author.

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