have you ever noticed that we think of when the term Handjob first of all, in the manual satisfaction of the man? Blowjob, Handjob – the fine-sounding Duo in the matters of Sex for HIM. What relates to the female's satisfaction, we keep it, however, arg is simple and we don't even bother, the act not to miss a creative name, and say simply, Licking and fingering. Or am I wrong? (Read also: blow-job - with these tips it's you)

Blowjob, Handjob, Lickjob

Well, Sexkolumnisten as I like to speak from the Lickjob. But also, if it's not written very well – when you have pronounced the term in Real Life for the last Time, according to? I mean, one says rather "I want to lick you" as a "Baby, there's a Lickjob!"

a Pity. But in terms of good old fingers, we don't need to rethink at all. We steal them, just the Handjob. Finally, it is indifferent, from whose palm you here are a wagging. The main thing is that wag. (Also interesting: What you can do with testicles and everything)

3 tips for the Handjob to the woman

fingers, I'm sorry, the Handjob to the woman works, But how? What power, with what you fingers into the From? I'll tell you in a small Guide. In part one it comes to Basics, with which you can points before you even get started. (Also worth a read: The Blowjob etiquette)

tip 1: Unkempt hands must remain on the outside

I will never be tired to stress this point: Approach the Vagina of a woman with clean hands and neatly filed nails. With abgeknabberten, cracked, or the nails long and pointy finger can be from the pleasure of a quick painful action. (Also interesting: men Should use a hand cream?)

tip 2: promising hint

A tip from the Handbook of lesbian love: to Start, while your partner is still fully clothed. Let your Hand between the legs of the woman glide, and then engage to the thumb the mount of Venus, the rest of the fingers include the (fabric wrapped) labia. Now easy to push and the wife see in the eye.

whether you are wearing a pair of Jeans or just Slip under your summer dress: The Mix of passionate, demanding, and minimally restrained is hot. And the pressure that is exerted on the Vulva, anyway. (Read also: Erotic games for couples: 5 Sex ideas for exciting evenings)

Seriously, one of my Ex-Girlfriends taught me this Trick years ago. This is misleading. In nine cases out of ten for enthusiasm and a minimum of moisture eyes.

tip 3: Always be nice and wet to stay

Speaking of. I met the other day with a friend who told me of his last Sex-Date. He told me how he had given the lady a hand job, and used to support what is being said visually, a gesture: He held a Hand to his mouth, licked them and then pushed an invisible woman between the legs. Phew. Experts hold. (Also interesting: Bizarre Porn Trend: What is Female Desperation is actually ""?)

One can learn from the, you may still be something that a Vagina has it's moist like that. But since not every woman is wet from the first sloppy kiss as my old cellar, it can help, not harm, to. With Lube. Or, my favorite, spit. If you spit directly on the Genital or as my friend the Finger to lick and then act, their preferences – and those of your partner – leave. (Also worth reading: The feeling of cold steel on the skin: Sex with handcuffs)

another variation: Slide the woman's two fingers in the Vagina. Slowly, the Look, not forget. Now pull out the wet Finger again and devote themselves to the clitoris.

In the next part I will explain the most popular Handjob techniques and what is it with the safety on the handle.

Mimi Sex columnist for GQ, and GQ.de is Erhardt. Here learn more about the author.

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